Blech... what am I like?

[Faye]

Long story short;

I'm still in love with my ex
I have had a couple of relationships since him
2 of those guys play on my mind
1 is.. a friend but maybe more?

Basically, my emotions are all over the place. There's the ex who I still talk to occasionally, who I'm still crazy for even though I don't want to be.
There's the long time crush who's heart I stomped all over cause I didn't know what I wanted.
There's the cutie who I like but... feel I'm only using.
Plus there's several guys who are possible maybe's, if only I could sort my jumbled mass of feelings out =S

I honestly don't know what to do with myself. I hate being all smitten with my ex but every time he messages me or whatever, every inch of me burns with anticipation. We split up a long long time ago but I STILL have feelings for him... and it irritates me...

Ech.. how do I sort out my feelings? How do I choose? How do I let go..? =(

[fuck Mel]

with the ex, why is he your ex in the first place?
Whatever the reason was, do you think you'll be okay with him this round around?
If not, there's not point in being with him.

with all the other guys you're interested, just wait for one of them to start moving in on you more.
You're hot, one of them will come forward, and go with that boy.
good luck though, I know it's hard.

[Jume.]

Stop being so attractive. Thats your answer. xD
But..
A way to let go is to confront them and talk it out. Tell him why you don't want to see him again and that will get you closure. I think you should pick whoever you are most comfortable with. I mean of course your going to want certain guys but you can't always get what you want because sometimes it will hurt you in the process.

But srsly Faye.
Stop being so hawt. (:

[timsty]

To me personally, how you choose depends on who you really are and what you really want.
And that person, the true person within, sometimes is even elusive to your own self.

Find some time, lock yourself up in your room, grab your favourite tunes and reflect.
What really matters, who really matters to you?
Who do you really want and who do you think can make you happy?

If there's one who seems to stand out all the time, or one who's obviously screaming out to you during your quiet time, then you probably got your answer.
As for your ex, I tink what mel said has a point.
It kinda depends on why you guys broke up in the first place? And if it is rectifyable/salvageable.

Always know that you deserve the best k. And not let anyone tell you otherwise.
All the best Katey, and good luck with everything.

[WolfmanIsGod]

Here's my suggestion.

Cut all ties with your ex. It sucks, and it's gonna be hard, but if you want to get over him, you have to do it. I'm telling you this from past experience, I was completely caught up with my ex gf, and when we broke up I still felt the same. (Obviously.) She would call me occasionally to hook up, and I always felt like there was still something between us, so I stayed single in the hopes that she would change her mind... but six months down the road she still hadn't. I eventualy got sick of the emotional meltdowns I would have when she called me, so I told her we couldn't talk anymore. It took me a hard 3 months after we stopped talking before I finally stopped wanting her, but in the end it was worth it. Some people can get over a relationship while keeping in contact with thier exes, others can't.

As for the other options, keep this in mind-They are OPTIONS. Play the field, go out on a date with all of them. Or go out on several with all of them. Just get to know all of them as well as you can before you make a decision on who you want to date. OR become a polygamist.

[Dani loves Sean]

Faye.
I am in the same position as you right now.
Well, minus as many options.
You sxc beast; getting all the men.
I'm between two.

But anyway, dearest, making these types of choices is hard.
I tell myself I hate my ex so much, but he continues to speak to me and I continue to respond, and my feelings continue to be stirred up.

If you know you are in love with your ex, start from the ground up with him.
Do the baby steps, and take the time to get to know eachother all over again.
Re-learn even the dumb stuff, like their favorite color, even if you already know it.
Jumping right back in might get you hurt, and I don't want to see Miss sxc Faye make a bad choice. ):

[koilady]

My suggestion would to be to just take a bit of time from all of them to clear your head (maybe a week or two). At the end of that time, if you miss them as friends, maintain the connection. if not then let them go.